Women have been able to learn about, basically, everything, but they’re feelings. Seriously, really, girls? Understand our feelings and our anger, cause I promise you, it’s better to know yourself and choose what you want. That way you can be there for others, or present with someone with shared expectations. Rather than the ladies getting too excited about feelings and can’t understand that it’s more than that. It’s who you choose to spend your time with, doing what you both love to do, who you want to share your deepest fears and tribulations with, it’s someone who understands you most, and feels most understood by you. That’s love and loyalty, always!
Idk what I would do if I didn’t get to spend this lifetime with nerds like me.
Being a feminist does not mean that you need to continue to analyze past behavior patterns of how women were treated. For example, when you were verbally harassed and challenged daily, based on your appearance how did you react? Are we suppose to listen to every Tom, Dick, and Harry who ogles at our Beauty? No. So stop allowing it to continue. Being a feminist means carrying yourself with grace and faith, that although you are not solely created for nurturing a baby or man(s) ego(s), however, women, have natural abilities, that other organisms do not have. For example, I don’t see any lions prancing around wearing a ring on their index finger.
Choose to love everyday, be diligent in identifying your worthiness and differentiate what you tolerate versus what you expect. If you tolerate a partner’s inexcusable behavior, without bringing their attention to it, are you reinforcing the idea that it’s something you would expect? Something that could repeat and eventually you’d learn to move past tolerating behavior and move in to allowing the behavior? Or to continue being bitter until it crushes other spirits. Seems like a negative cycle. So, look toward the worthiness of being aligned within one soul. After all, wouldn’t it be sweet if everyone felt okay, at least.
If you’re not growing with your friends and family, constantly giving feedback and seeking feedback in return, what are you doing? Spreading good energy and fuel to a very hateful world, can seem daunting. I’ll still choose to love always. Hope everyone is ready for this upcoming year and the blessings it has in store.
Ttyl
Natalie
